Waves...me too! I came to realize a couple things. Things HAD to change. I got soooooo angry that if I pushed him out, I didn't care. H had used som gheto slang that I found totally disrespectful. He has taken fun, sex, intimacy, and now he was working on the very last communication we had. What little we spoke, he was now "forcing/driving (somesuch word)to totally shut up. That last desperate stand, seems, to either have lifted the last submissive burden from me, or awakened him. Whatever the catalyst, it seems to be working at the moment. Interesting that I found this series at the same time as I found your post. Hope it helps all of us. Inspirational Thread
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
