Wow that fits my wife to a T. It couldn't be me, everyone else was lying etc..

I have had a pretty tough childhood 3 step dads and all that go with it. Pretty much raised myself and my sister. I am a ultra caring/rescuing type and I have ADD which probabaly doesnt help that.

I knew her family issues long before I married her, she just had low esteem etc. The effects really amplified once my daughter was born. She was jelous of her own daughter and just wasn't there for her. She made sure she had all the "in" baby clothes but wasn't really connected with either of our children.
She isnt the I am king type she is more the i am the victim type.