Now. If someone violates my trust, and I still have to be in a relationship with them... I bet my whole score would alter radically.

That's probably very accurate. I scored anxious like Lil and Fran. I had difficulty with the questions because I kept thinking, well, this is not really me but I probably need to answer the question as it pertains to the R that I have right now with my H, not how I would be if I were in a different (i.e. better) R. So, I felt like some of the answers weren't really 'me' but were still indicicative of the R I am currently in.

Hey, I bet nobody here knew I was anxious huh? I also scored low avoidance.....could that also be considered confrontational?!


"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."

- Nathaniel Hawthorne