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CAC,

I your wife KNOWS you have no intention of leaving the marriage, and she doesn’t give a flip about whether you are satisfied in the marriage, what exactly are you going to do to turn things around?



I don't know; that's what I'm asking YOU people!!!
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You are stuck and she controls the cards.



um...yeah. isn't that what marriage is all about?
you can divorce your wife, but you can't divorce your responsibility.
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...Either you divorce later (after wasting many years in frustration) or you divorce sooner. Do you see any other option?



yeah, suck it up and deal with it. others have gone far longer in far worse situations.

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Passionate Marriage by Schnarch is th right book. Read it twice, at least.



yeah, looks like "twice" will be a minimum.