Easy, sweet pea. I don't think BigRed was trying to offend... merely to solicit responses to a study he found... interesting.
Based on your response, I bet I could guess a whole lot about you. Care to share, honey? Start a thread. Vent. Get it out. May make you feel better. But be warned. People here will offer comfort and empathy, to be sure, but we in these parts tend to roll up our sleeves and at least TRY to get to work on ourselves... we don't typcially pull punches on one another.
Welcome to a place where no one wants to be. However. You won't find a gritter bunch of people anywhere.
