Big red, what if the situation is the opposite? I am the W and want it all the time and my H doesn't want it. His excuse is that he is too tired (we both are very career driven) and we also have 2 young boys. (which makes it difficult to find time). His other excuse is that my belly is bothering him. (It is flabby) , but I am a size 10 so its not like I'm huge. Any advice/ suggestions? kneedn
