Funny you should mention going away this weekend, Phoenix! I am driving to our previous city, 12 hours away, to fetch my son, who has decided to come home. I am so happy that he has made this choice, because we are hoping the next choice will be to go to college. I will be driving alone, and the roads are sometimes pretty dicey at this time of the year, so send a prayer up for me please. My S19 will probably drive most of the way back.
We are not in C - my H doesn't think we need it, and anyway, he lied to the last church C we had, so I am thinking it may be pointless as a couple. However, I may seek one for myself again, since I have a lot of family issues going back to childhood and my first M, that I still feel I need to resolve, despite my positive achievements I have made, on a personal level, since the whole sitch with my M happened 3 (almost 4) years ago. I think I'm at the point where I know enough to know I don't have all the answers, but am willing to go find them, whether it be inside myself or externally.
Anyway, good luck on your couch tonight. Ours is very comfortable, thank goodness, so I had a good sleep.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim