Everything that can be said, has been said to her, many times, including that her BF is responsible for his own choices. However, she has chosen to go back to him, and we are going to detach from the whole sitch for our D14's sake. I was an absolute basket case, worrying about our D19, and I am feeling somewhat better now, although still worried, but in control. I sent her an email stating that we are here for her if she ever needs us, and asked that she contact us with her address and to let us know that she is okay from time to time. We'll see how things go from here.
Thanks, Phoenix, for the prays and moral support. We need that now. Our HT'ers have been great, especially the one we had back in our old city. He took our D19 in, took her for her health card, licence, contacted us to let us know what was happening, etc. He is just an awesome guy, and we so appreciate what he did. He was very supportive during our M sitch, too.
Anyway, none of us can tell the future. We can just do what we feel is best in the given moment, and hope that it bears positive fruit sometime down the road. I guess CTR is a good way of putting it. Can't go wrong then.
It is snowing here, and freezing cold, which is very unusual for this area. I got a job, at last, and started training last week, just as it started getting cold. Almost wish I hadn't got the job now. Ha! Thankfully, I don't have far to travel on the icy roads. Half the island is without power, but we've been fortunate, so far, to still have ours.
Positive vibes to all!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim