So! In essence, this is a lesson for your H to learn, Cat. You couldn't have taken his power away, unless he was willing to give it away. He got lazy, lacked trust in himself, much like I did. Which doesn't excuse you or my H, but I doubt if you were doing it out of malice.
I must say that, this whole process of working on one's M, and DB'ing, seems to morph itself into self-discovery, digging deep into oneself, and finding the true person inside. Who woulda thunk!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim