Quote: When your choices are your own, you will be more likely to accept and be satisfied with the outcome of those choices. Your decisions will be a pure reflection of your desires, your creativity, your awareness, and your power.
I took this power/freedom from my H, in my efford to show him a "better" way to do things, with the idea that he didnt' research enough and that I better do it myself so he won't screw up, and the little decisions he'd made I sencond guess each time or told him there was a better way to do it.
He told me (a while after he came back) that he wanted to live without someone telling him what to do or how to feel, if it didnt' agree w/me I'd fight it because I thought my way was always best
So, I have to remember that I should excercize my right to remain silent more often.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
