Tough,
That is what I am working on trying to do actually. I have to get back being the friend I was in the beginning so she gets comfortable again with me. Over the past few days or the week or so I am trying to think about the beginning and pretend that I am just getting to know her and want to be her friend just as I did in the beginning.

Really weird though isn't it? Trying to be a friend to someone you are married to and were at one point. Seems like it shouldn't be this hard. I think the small steps I have made have come from me backing off of her and not pressuring her into anything and just trying to be her friend. Have to stay on that track.


If you aren't a little scared of your dreams...then they aren't big enough.

Me: 38
XW: 37
M: 3 1/2 years
Together 7 1/2 years
Son: 8
Bomb: June/2006
Papers sent to me: March/2007
D Final: June 19th, 2007