It's been 6mths since my H has come back, and just now that I get some affection other than ML. He also didnt get close to me or hug me or anything at all, somedays I thought about just not giving affection either, but I kept on.
I used to just hold his hand and kiss him good night. He always responds but i'm usually the one who initiates.
I wouldn't withhold affection, of course I'd only do little things (hold hand for a bit, always good night kisses).
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
