your not alone. I have been wrestling with this also. My wife shows little if any affection towards me and I long for it so much. On one hand I don't want to push her, and on the other hand I don't want her to think I don't care. When she doesn't say much it's hard to tell one way or the other. I have been kissing her on her forehead and telling her "goodnight sweetheart" before bed, but she has not responded. Maybe I should stop. Sometimes I think she wants me to show some affection, but I can never be for sure and I don't want to push it. I know one thing is for sure, I sure miss her.
