Liz,
Thanks for the tip. That is what I have been thinking but also wanted to know what others thought/tried and if any of that worked.

If you aren't a little scared of your dreams...then they aren't big enough.

Me: 38
XW: 37
M: 3 1/2 years
Together 7 1/2 years
Son: 8
Bomb: June/2006
Papers sent to me: March/2007
D Final: June 19th, 2007