Quote: Sexual drives are different and it's obvious that they can and do change. I think the stance reflected in the quote above leaves you and your wife in an impossible position.
Do you think that two people can't have a rip-roaring good time sexually (and/or a gentle sweet tender good time) with each other without having equivalent drives?
Would the above be acceptable to you?
Because I can tell you from my experience that they can.
It may mean that you might have to have less than satisfactory sex for a time while the lower drive spouse works through a few things. Is that something that you could tolerate?
MrsNOP -
Yes, absolutely. As long as I saw my wife working at it, and that it was important to her to try and help me be happy, I would work with her for as long as it took. My complaint with the fetching Mrs. Choc. is that she neither works at it, nor even indicates that she even thinks it's important for our marriage to do so.
