How can you stop your sex drive? THere are guys on here that have actually looked to drugs to try and kill it. I have no clue as to how you can stop it. It is there at all times. Heck, if you are around females, how can you NOT desire. I work hard to NOT desire other women and keep it focused on my wife. Sex, affection, it is freaking EVERYWHERE. It's at work, it's at the mall, it's in the media, it's at the rec center, it's on the street, it's at the kids soccer and football games. And maybe the worst place of all, CHURCH! Ladies dressed to the hilt, some very sexily, and couples sitting VERY close togehter. How can you NOT think about sex.