Quote: MrsNop just listed in one of her postings about 20 reasons why women loses desire, and guess what. Men have NOTHING to do with ANY of them.
Guess even more what.
Women have little to do with it either.
Pregnancy, birth control, testosterone, age - there's not a lot of personal control over the consequences of any of those.
Which kinda gives an oopsie to the idea that all/many/most LD wives are getting some kind of sick kick out of tricking their spouses with "fake" sexual behavior early in the relationship.
That includes your wife, Cemar. The woman was HD for several years, initiating with you (did you initiate at all during the early years?) so should you really keep declaring that she deceived you, tricked you?
When/if hormones wane, the relationship can pick up the slack if both partners work toward that.
