Quote: The HD spouse (or MAN if that's the way you want to see it) tends to woo the woman in all kinds of ways. He flatters her, takes her out, buys her flowers and other gifts, pays attention to her every word etc in order to get his heart's desire. She is persuaded by his attentions and gives him what he wants (not to say she doesn't want it too). Then it would appear he thinks "ha, job done, no further need to woo, I have her". Well sorry!
So true. How come I enjoyed sex so much with other men and then early in my R with H? Probably because he was complimenting me on my appearance, treating me respectfully in bed and out of it, treasuring me. When it got to the point that I felt like I might as well be a blow-up doll, I somehow lost interest. So...who got ripped off here?
Nicola
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