Corrie, thank you so much for your reply. I read and saved your story. You'll have to read my thread to understand more about my sitch. I would REALLY like to be able to email with you, because you do understand and are able to express yourself. I don't want to keep putting extremely private stuff about her past on here. I did give a rough overview of her past experiences on one of my post.
She is starting to deal with it, slowly. She says that she has more and more dreams about her father, and more is becoming clear. She always said that she didn't remember much about her child hood, probably becouse she blocked it out as a means of survival. Now with all of the stress she's been under, it's starting to come out. You see, becouse I DO believe all of this and I do know that it effects her, and led to her cheating. That's the only reason that I know I can forgive her. I've told her many times in the past that I would walk through hell with her and hold her hand all the way. meaning that I would be there for her to go through the healing. I love my wife very much, and I've been reading everything I could find to learn how to help her and how to deal with it. But there is so much that the books just don't answer. If you have the time, I would love to talk to you privately.
