Quote: She said she could have sex with OM because it wasn't so intimate. Sounds like bullsh!t to me !!!!
No. This is not bullshit. Having been one who went through years of sexual abuse myself, I could probably tell you a thing or two about the whole experience.
Here is a post I made on a recent thread:
Quote: Cobra:
In one of your posts, you said you didn't know I was sexually abused. Well. I was. And like I said, for many years, I thought it was the crux of all my problems.
I think I may have told you all at one point that in college I was a journalism major... I found my way professionally into other things, but during my time in college, I took many non-fiction and fiction writing classes. I was born to write. I haven't done it, but... hey... most of us shun what we are naturally inclined to do.
Anyway, for a few years, I did fiction writing on the side, as a means of catharsass... before I met my shrink. I wrote a story, a FICTIONAL story, about what had happened to me. When I say fiction... I altered names, places, etc. It is not the factual accounting of my tale, but every emotion that you would FEEL from this accounting is true.
I will say up front that this is a very disturbing story, most especially for men. But if you've ever wondered what it is like to be in this situation, then I think you might get it from this story.
It is very graphic and not for the faint of heart. If you would like, you can read it here: One More Day.
If it brings you any understanding at all of these types of sitches... then... well. I'll leave you all to your thoughts.
Corri
If you are interested in discussion, look for my thread called Girl Help, and Girl Help II in the SSM thread.
This thing your W has going with the OM will dismantle, given time... especially if she has never dealt with her SA issues. Don't know that you should wait around for it, but... well. Let me just say... if your W is not willing to confront her SA issues head on, there isn't a whole lot you can do.
