I wish there were a test that could be made for LDness. If I ever have to rejoin the dating world, I will try to avoid LD people like the plague. But how do dating people figure this out? Heck, I married my wife because she WAS physical (as well as other great personality features). But lets face it, most of us HD people were deceived by our spouses (not intentionally in most cases). And how do you ever combat the "People change" aurgument that LD people throw right back in your face. The problem is that yes LD people change, but guess what, HD people usually don't.