girl you gotta get yourself a toy, if you know what I mean, and I know you do....and get massages too. The massages are for flippin' human contact!! I don't know if your H touches you at all and just loses it with the actual act, or doesn't even want to touch at all. ...and is he getting help? It is NOT normal without some external cause, like a new baby, long horrible work hours, etc. and if those conditions are permanent, CHANGE your life...but how old is your H? Is he alright physically? Does he say he's attracted to you?
yikes, and although when my H was in residency, we had dry spells...but dang, you're in a desert. Get a toy, order it online if you have to, and buy lots of batteries.....
j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016