I am the HD...... At least compared to my LDH. I would be happy, thrilled, estatic with ANY sex life at all. Even a bad one. I agree the partner who consistently refuses sex shouldn't be surprised when bad things happen. I told my H I was going to have sex again before I die. If I have the opportunity, I'll do it! And he knows it.
I think women have the right to believe sex will happen too!
