Hey, just stopped by your thread and must admit, it is not one of my many problems.. But it was for a sister in law. She wanted to feel close before she could ml and her husband needed to ml before he could feel close....Mexican stand off. I feel that the woman has it a bit easier here, since ml is an action she can do (fyi, I am a woman) more easily than the abstract "feel close". Of course this assumes the husband is good to her in bed. I have often said yes, though I was not in the mood. BUT, afterwards, well, I have never once wished I'd done laundry instead.
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