In your experience with your LDH's... do they seem to be reluctant to touch you, reluctant to be touched... or both?
My H is more reluctant to be touched. He likes to control the level of interaction and doesn't want to be overwhlemed by me. He is clearly the initiator.
He tends to be more randy while on vaction.
BTW, it's hard to come up with a one-size-fits all theory.
Lil, remember when you got blasted for your generalizations? Kinda funny now....
