Honey, I just wanted to bring this back to what I think blackfoot was saying...
You said to your H re the alarm clock, "if you're going to turn it off, at least" etc.
This does sound a bit like the female doublespeak code that guys sometimes accuse us of.
How would your H have reacted if you had simply said nicely, "Please do not turn off her alarm clock. I need her up at 7." (or whatever time)
No reason, no excuse, no negotiating. A clear statement of what you wanted him to do with no acknowledgement of the possible legitimacy of his disregarding your wishes?
