Quote: In your experience with your LDH's... do they seem to be reluctant to touch you, reluctant to be touched... or both?
My H was both. Now that I rarely touch him he initiates touch quite frequently. It's really kind of mind-boggling to me how easily I lost the habit or compulsion to touch him. Just "not-doing-it" really worked. The hardest thing was getting over my ridiculous notion that I was being mean if I didn't continue to hug someone who froze up like a stick when I did. However, I continue to believe that it is mean to not hug somebody back when they hug you so I am a hug-backer, not completely hug-LD.
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