Quote: Oh yes. So i post all of this here... and you will all come in and do 'there, there,' stuff. Cuz you are all friends, etc.
Is this healthy?
Corri
Corri,
My honest opinion is that it is a fine line between healthy and unhealthy when it comes to anonymous internet boards or chat rooms. I know that for me - regular participation quickly turns unhealthy because I get addicted. I draw the line at periodic lurking and occassional posting.
Having said that, this board helped me enormously when I was going through an extremely rough patch. When I found this board, I had just had a baby, was going through some kind of post-partum hormonal craziness and my H had withdrawn emotionally from the marriage. We had been in an SSM for a long time, but something about that combination of factors combined with my participation on this board helped me get my act together and make some real changes. I grew more in those few months than I ever have at any other time in my life.
So its for you to decide whether the benefits outweigh the negatives. I'm excited for you - I hope that everything falls into place for you. You go, girl!
