(I was buzzed when wrote this. Missed the continue button again)
HP
Blackfoot, I *never* invalidate what he is saying or feeling. He is irritated that I am there, in his space, while he is upset/disappointed/sad/insert emotion here.
I didnt think you did. Its know it feels lose/lose for you. Well not really. Like Burg said. we just want our cave time. Be out shortly. Stand by with food ready. I think the only way to deal with this is a LRS.
Thanks for the article. I think I'm okay with receiving but I dole out the Inner Honey in miserly little doses, on my own timetable. Sound familiar, blackfoot????
Yep. You cant just stuff yourself with gobs of rich food. You have to take small bites and savor it. Do you get the big bar of 80% cocoa and eat it all at once like a snickers bar. Heck no. Itd be too much to handle.
I swear, when he first started posting I thought, Oh man this is the male version of myself. I have since ....but the essence of him seems familiar to me.
Reaalllly. my essence seems familiar. <trying to stifle, c a n t d o i t>
Never heard it put quite like that before. Where did you say you bartended again? Ill have to think back. LOL. LMAO.
Ok. I know that was inappropriate. I respect your marriage. blah blah. but SERIOUSLY. A guy cant be expected in good conscience to pass up on something like that.seriously. Im gonna regret this. do I get a free pass for inappropriate behavior on my Bday? who cares. Mr. Pot can sock me and require my apologies later.
all funning aside, HP, I was raised by ridiculously independant and self sufficient 'feminists' who rubbed to a nub every man they came across. They taught me sports, (grandma and Great aunt were both pro atheletes) farming, etc. had me doing pushup and situps since I was at least 5, <grandma> show me your muscles. comon flex. I dont know it looks like a mouse to me. How many pushups can you do. can you do 15? <bf> (sleepy in pj's) grandma I just woke up, Im hungry. <grandma> comeon. drop down. let me see if you can do 15. then well have breakfast.
I remember watching them play pinochle as a kid and they would just badger my step dad. I said to him one time, 'they are just trying to get your goat-- why do you let them'. and then I said to my mom and grandma, quit picking on him. they all thought that was funny. Poor guy. He was the only man around. I never looked at him like a father figure or even up to him as a man. I appreciated his fiscal caretaking of me since I wasnt part of 'his family'. He was a nice guy. My mom broke him. My father broke her prior. He was a pr!ck. anyways, I know what your saying. When I first came to this BB, I saw your name and I was like OH Brother. That woman has a lot of confidance. Why dont I just name myself Thors Hammer or something equally phallic sounding? lol I always avoided... no.. bypassed women I encountered that I consider to be like you for LTR's. Firstly cause I had no confidance in there ability to commit, but I have come to realize some women think that about me too. secondly, because they always have a boyfriend or 3. the 3 doesnt bother me. but when its A bf, and I dont think its kosher or karmically correct to .... misapply knowledge.
I stutter step though when they (actually a specific she) say stuff like 'we should hang out' and 'theres no ring on this finger'.
Hopefully that was a baby tooth that got knocked out? <fingers crossed.>
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