Laura Doyle has many valid points. If you read her background story, you will notice that she had a husband who had uncompromising boundaries. Ive read a couple passages where she says to engage in actions that are incongruent and to diminish or hide the intellectual abilities of the woman. I find that distasteful.
In one of my social circles I was surrounded by women who implemented these attributes, to use on men for there personal gain. This book in particular was one they talked about. It was a mental recollection of that, that caused my remark more then anything.
The men apparently needed it or felt it was true, and undoubtedly received great pleasure from it. All men 'need it' I just happen to think it comes when its earned. If you have earned it, and your woman still refuses to give it, its her problem not yours. It is completely in your power, to determine that.
Ive never met a woman who gave it authentically, that it didnt have to be 'wrestled' from.
