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Intimacy doesn’t always feel good




Martelo,

you are absolutely right. Intimacy can be uncomfortable for some people. It can be downright terrifying for others. Schnarch addresses this in "Passionate Marriage".


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sometimes communication will do nothing more than point out opposite points of view.






Right again. Talking doesn't always get the point acrossed.

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all that ails a relationship




Do you have any ideas outside of increasing intimacy and more effective communication?


I don't mind the sun sometime The images it shows I can taste you on my lips And smell you in my clothes Cinnamon and Sugar And softly spoken lies You never know just how you look Through someone elses eyes BHS-"Pepper"