Well I am doing better ,, I am actually proud of myself...! I continue to use my voice and when I feel like I need to say somehting I do. I do not sugarcoat things any more...and at the same time I am not mean at all.

I am allowing myself to be heard. I also told my H that I would really like to start working out again. I used to work out 2 hours a day....

Yesterday my H came home early from work and we talked a little more about things and he seems to be doing soo much better.
I am still focusing on me and changing me and working on being assertive.

Today I will take my kids trick or treating it is going to be fun and cold ..
I hope you all have a great day....
God bless....