I believe this will be the ultimately most loving thing you can do for your family and even your H.

I believe this too honey and it is what I commited to myself to do last nite,, he can join me or he can lose me. I will not be a WAW,,, ( even though I was ready to choke him LOL , I chose to use another strategy and I pray he really heard me!!!)

I WILL KEEP PRAYING AND HELPING HIM TO SEE THAT CHANGE IS GOOD AND I will commit to helping him see this behavior is not a part of loving someone.. If he does not choose to change in a matter of time I will then decide WHAT TO DO. I HOPE AFTER OUR LONG TALKS HE WILL KEEP IT IN HIS MIND AND CHOOSE TO WORK ON HIMSELF..... Time will tell. Keep me and my family in your prayers,, Please.
GOD bless...