honey, i'm so sorry you had a horrible weekend! (welcome to the club it was no picnic for me either, as you can see I even changed my name, my H asked me if I'd seen his black diary, so, time for a new face)

Lov, you do so much, but then, I wonder, if you cut back or change the stuff you do so you don't have so much in your hands would it help you? I now realize if something I've always done because I thought it had to be done but creates resentment for me, then maybe I should STOP doing it.

I know this isn't the core of the prob, but I know that little things like that created a huge mountain of resentment for me. I'm also gun-ho about homemade food, but a hotdog or a bologni sandwich for dinner wont' kill the kids now and then, find more time for yourself, to make yourself happy.

What do you do for yourself? do you have at least a few hrs on your own? find yourself again, love that person and you'll find your boundaries again, boundaries that your H should not trample on anymore.

Hugs honey)))))))))))

...but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. piecing after separation