You sound good and it seems your H has stopped his snappy-ness with you. Keep doing what you are doing as it appears to be working. Remember also that people will treat you how you allow them to treat you. You are doing well for standing up for yourself. It is clear your H needs some help. You know this and hopefully he knows this.
It sounds so good to hear you happy when he talks to you with respect and gives you the loving words you so deserve. Keep it up. Your positive influence on your R/M is doing wonders!
