(((Ali))) You responded to my post on the "separated" board, so I thought I'd come over here to visit your thread. I am so sorry that these last few days have been so emotionally draining for you. You are unbelievably strong, and are very inspirational for me. You seem to know the right things to do (and know your H so well), but your H is certainly making it hard to make forward progress. I will keep you in my prayers. Take care - Lemondrop