For your H to say those things to you really bothers me. I'm guessing that this is something he's always done. To me it's verbal abuse and at some point if your marriage is to continue, he's going to have to get that under control.
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I agree with you completely and no you are not offending me I soooo appreciate your input,, that is why I asked you specifically to stop by and help me.. I did not think you got to this point in anger ,,( thank GOD )I just knew you could help me with this... and yes he has always done this it used to be daily sometimes a few times a day now it is not as often maybe once twice a month,, but I would like it to stop,,, I will be working on it,,,

... this is something we have talked about.. part of the problem is he thinks his behavior is fine.

He is the "MAN" of the house and he can get angry whenever he chooses. WRONG.
And like I have told him in the past this behavior DEEPLY, DEEPLY, hurts me. My LL is words and his cut like a knife....He almost convinces me that I overeact to his anger and that is why I posted all this ugliness so that I can know that I am right in feeling------------> this is way over the top..




THANK YOU again and I look forward to hearing more of your input in the future....
God bless...

God bless...