GH... my husband had called me several times on his drive he took D9 with him also... he was in a SUPER AWESOME mood....

Then...... he asks me to look on the computer to help him with directions......he knows that when I read a map and try to explain it off of yahoo or mapquest I have a difficult time. and he has zero patience
He said these things to me....
He called me stupid
really stupid
are you that dumb or are you just acting
let that be the last time I ever hear you say you are smart and had a 4.0 in high school cause apparently you are very stupid and your head is full of sh*t...( mind you I have mentioned I am smart and had a 4.0 in H.S.. but not during this convo)

I thought I was stressed from work or something,, now I realize it is just you....
do you like to get my heart racing you must enjoy this

The whole time he was being mean I did not get rude or talk back I just cried...

I asked him if I could read the map and then call him back.. he said no stay on the d*mn phone...
This all started b/c he took a shortcut on his drive down to Mexico and wanted me to find the way to go by typing in a city along the highway he was traveling on and explain how to get to Little Rock Arkansas.

I know he was just angry but he made me cry so hard ... any advice?


I want to keep being positive and leave the past in the past but his temper seems to drain me and I have to work hard to get back my PMA,,,, this is why I used to stay quiet and not say anything or ask for anything cause there are times he is so volitale.. and then he can be sooooooooo beautiful. I used to tease him he is like Jeckyl and Hyde,, but actually it is not very funny actually it hurts my feelings alot and he justifies it every time.....


we just talked the other day.. I do not understand and he actually beleives it is all my fault and he said do not call me until I call you.. sad very sad.

I feel very hurt and like I could eat a whole chocolate cake.....I know he doesn't control my moods I do,,

but I feel so hurt that he would be sooooo mean and my D9 heard him saying all this as she is in the truck with him.. Please help...