thank you so much for your support I can not tell you how much it means to me.. I agree my H stopped the divorce too with absolutely no pressure from me and that is HUGE ( very huge)....

I also agree with the way you handle when he leaves too...
I feel a lot stronger about this today..... I have complete faith in him something I may have even had a hard time saying before the bomb, we communicate soooooooooo much better now. It is amazing frankly!
He even offered to take the kids to school today something he rarely ever does.

I mentiond the tattoo this morning when he and I were taking a shower together (), I missed that so much when we were seperated. He washes my hair so good!
Anyway , I said lets go get a tattoo today, my insecurities SHOWING A LITTLE ( WELL ACTUALLY ALOT), and then he nicely explained that it would be alot of care for it and if he could wait til he gets home and I said fine but I do not want you taking off your shirt while you are there...he agreed, he added I NEVER do anyway honey... I also mentioned something else that had been bothering me for a while that had nothing to do with the tattoo, or his vacation subject and he also agreed,,, so I am keeping up with my DBing and being assertive and he is going along with me it makes it soooooooo much better when we agree and are on the same page.

Just him offering to take the kids to school for me and I am a stay at home MOM means so ,so much.And all this morning he was holding me like he would never see me again before we got up and I knew he was saying " I am going to miss you SOOOOOOOOOOOOO much" without words.

I have to admit that I am proud of him, really proud and I believe all the prayers I get from you all here are really touching his heart!!!!

..... and me being supportive and non confrontational and trusting him have impacted him also and I know he truly loves me....
Will update more later and Thank you all sooooo much for being so caring and supportive, It means the world to me too.
God bless...