Thank you so much,,, I agree with you and yes my H too has a (very) hard time with I am sorry.

That is why for me it is awesome even if I had to ask him to say it and he did,, but I did agree with Liz cause sure it would be spectacular had he come home and said he is sorry,, he is generally not like that unless he royally F*cked up or he feels he can say it and I wont take him into a one hour discussion..... after he apologizes( I used to do this ,, not exactly an hour but you know what I mean )

The day after I found out about the "OW" he on his own apologized I did not ask him to or even expect him to,, he said he also said he never meant to hurt me. (((that is partly why he lied to me about it in the first place...)))
so for him that was a huuuuuuuuuuge 180 for him.

he also apologizes if he is busy and has to cut me off on his cell at work,,, he NEVER used to do that he just used to get angry and yell and then let me go,, now he will politely say can I call you back and then he does call me back and he says honey I am sorry I was busy..

So I am making progress and so is he and I know my little bird will come home but will the evil "OW" leave him alone?

God bless...