What you described about yourself fits my husband to perfection,,,, he lashes out especially when stressed..
I have learned not to take it personal and even when sometimes now after reconciliation he has done it,, I try to let it go but this last one was a bad one and I started crying....especially b/c now he hardly does it.
I am so very glad to meet you and see that we will have much to learn from one another.... Thank you for being so honest.... Talk to you soon. God bless...