(GEL) The times I have done this, I have ABSOLUTELY gotten my H's attention and thrown him off kilter.

If you succeed in getting his attention on a more permanent basis and no longer feel the need to throw him off kilter, is this a behavior you would continue? Or is the main purpose to push him out of his comfort zone?

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