The approach I suggested is not suggested towards an HD man like yourself, it is suggested directly for a man who is rejecting his wife. IT WOULD BE A DREAM FOR YOU I KNOW.
The woman I suggested it to (Nicola)...will have to find the wherewithall within herself to try it too. It won't be easy for her, or maybe it will. Heck she may be nervous and fumbling too...but it's the effort to get his attention that is my point to her. Obviously Nicola....ISN'T ND. If she were...she wouldn't be missing her husbands' attention.
THIS IS NOT ABOUT THE HD MALE, DON'T TRY TO TURN IT AROUND TO YOU.