Quote: Yes, it was an issue. We were both grad students when we got married, and we were both so busy it just seemed like neither of us made time for it. If I was in the mood he was tired or busy, and vice versa.
It sounds that you both had equivalent drives? Or was the scale leaning more toward you or him?
Also, what are the details about the affection issue? Are there any good interactions going on between you or is everything stilted all the time? Any anger or outbursts from either of you?
Apologies for all the questions, I'm just trying to get a feel for your relationship, both past and present.
