dwh Im having the same problem,My H and I are together 28 years.Bomb hit last year in september.In my situtation my H was having an A with OW for 5 years. And we still ML when I act on it first, it always has to be me . He wants to remain as friends, but will probly move out in spring.H said It all happened because I rejected him all the time. now we just have s-x instead of ML. it feels like he is aready gone. My H says he will never be able to love me the way he did.That is before the OW was involved.
