One sure thing about feelings is that they change. Your H may believe that he will always feel the way he does now. The nature of feelings defies that belief. A lot of factors affect what and when feelings develope. When you get to a place where you can pick up and dust off, you can begin to see with clarity weather you want to his feelings to change and how to proceed. I wish I could offer you more comfort than that.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"