Well, last night H and I had another talk. I asked him again if he was having an affair, because some of my friends have mentioned that as a possible cause of our problems. He was very hurt that I would even think that. He said, "Isn't it possible that I'm just not happy with no external things going on?" He also made the statement that we went from friends to lovers back to buddies. He now sees me as a "buddy" and doesn't think he will ever be able to see me as a lover again. I mentioned to him that I've read a lot about sexual problems, and lots of people seem to have this lack of desire issue. His reply? "Those people are not like us. They must have at least a little desire left." So, right now I am again feeling hopeless. Is there anything I can do?
