Military here too.....listen man...better hit the JAG and start getting ready for something like "Getting taken to the cleaners". You know how it is with POA and how SPECIFIC you can make it. I wouldn't do too much without some counseling from a JAG or get one of those free consultations on the civilian side. Nothing legal done so far on her part and obviously nothing done on yours. This, I think, would be a really good time to CYA! Tax time is coming too....check on this. Military info is free but sketchy at times. Civilian info is costly at times. Surf the net, look for attorneys that may answer an email from you about a specific question. I did this from Doha so you can do it from here!