My W and I have now been S for a year and a month. Not much has changed in our R - just downs and a couple of ups. GAL these days, so some of the emotion may be lacking in my post. My W is on her 3rd OM this year - she doesn't think I know about them - but I do. Most of the ups are associated with the lack of OM (breakup) and the downs just after she finds a new one.
I am on the West Coast and she is on the East Coast - so it's hard to DB. I don't pursue and she rarely ever tries to contact me. Just sad - but sometimes "life happens".
She has now called and asked me to send her a specific Power of Attorney (POA) to change all the bills from our home on the East Coast into her name. We do not have a separation agreement. She asked about 9 months ago and sent me some paperwork/worksheets to fill out for the local military post JAG office to use to create the document - yes thing were amicable - but she never did anything with the info. No legal separation agreement. I have also recently discovered that she is trying to refinance the house (current loan is a VA loan in both our names). She has not told me this - I just know for a fact this is going on.
I'm wondering if she is trying to set me up now with all this info/POA and a new loan. We've just let it go that she makes the house payment and utilities, and I pay for mine. I wonder if her new BF who builds/sells houses is giving her advice on some loophole I don't know about. Anyone ever heard of this????
