Quote: Well, that's tricky. I think the WAS needs to be willing to discuss and disclose for a certain period of time, then the LBS has to be willing to let it go. It's best if you can do this stuff and discuss the negative stuff in MC because a good counselor makes a great referee and insures that everyone is respected...plus he/she can give you some suggestions for doing things at home that will help.
Yup..you are right.. That is tricky. It's even trickier when the WAS wants to move forward and not looking back to the time when he went haywire... So, a MC is definitely out of the question....